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Talking To Your Partner About Sex Toys

Using a sex toy is an alternative way of spicing up your sex life, to fizzle out sexual boredom. For a choice that brings excitement into relationships, it is not a thing to be frowned at or be ashamed about, when making such a suggestion to your significant other. The best way to bring up this sensitive subject, is to have an honest and open talk that comes from a place of desire with the intent of supporting and solely pleasing your partner and yourself. There is no rule of thumb as too early or too late in the relationship to bring up the subject, and finally, understand that it is perfectly normal and there is nothing bizarre in wanting to get a sex toy in the bedroom and wanting to try it out with someone you trust and feel comfortable around.

Some ways to introduce sex toys.

Open conversations towards sex in your relationship.

Having constant and open conversations about your sex life when things are going well and when there is an issue, especially sexual, is a healthy form of communication between couples. Experts say that talking about sex can increase the intimacy levels between lovers, because it helps you to better understand what and how you both want to be treated sexually. These conversations help to boost your sex life, because you both talk about the sensations you feel and enjoy and how to reach climax and more, also exploring different options in the bedroom.

Think about their feelings:

Remember to be mindful of their feelings and reassure them that there is nothing wrong with them, it is just for the sake of trying out new things, and being adventurous or exploring the wild side, and they need not worry about being replaced by an electronic pleasure toy or you being sexually unsatisfied with them. Always make room for understanding for your partners doubt about where they stand with you, gently reassure them that it is mutually beneficial, and be careful not to dismiss any concerns they might have about it.

Be specific about wanting a sex toy.

When you have established a free non-judgmental atmosphere of what you both like and are comfortable with each other, then it is time to talk to your partner about sex toys. It is disrespectful to put your partner on the spot by just bringing out a sex toy and expecting them to play along, without hearing their grievances, if they have any about using a sex toy. Remember to be respectful and considerate about their feelings, avoid saying things that sounds like blames or sounding dissatisfied. A good way you could start this could be showing them an article that would explain things properly to them and talk more about it with them. Make the conversation lively, throw in excitement and tell them the fun the toy would bring to your sex lives.

Pick a toy.

There are a lot of ranges and different types of sex toys out there that you both could try, easy to use especially for beginners and what urges you want fulfilled. It is very important to tell your partner what type of toy you would prefer, so you both are on the same page and spend time finding out what toy would excite your body and watch your partners body language to know what would work for them or ask them if there is something that they would like or visit a sex shop or scroll through an online sex store like fulltrouble.com and decide with your partner what would work for you.

Learn about your toys.

After getting the toy that you and your partner would love to try out, spend time learning about your selection, and become well aquatinted with it before trying it out with your partner in bed. Understand how it turns on, how the intensity increases or decreases, the vibration patterns and more, these are things you should understand before using it on yourselves, learning about the toy with your partner, would even be better, so if they have a question about how something works, they can be clarified and know how to use the toy properly.

Keep the conversation going.

After the experience, it is important to talk with your partner about how the experience went, no matter how awkward that might be like, the more you talk about it, you tend to realize that the uncomfortable conversation changes over time and just flows. Find out if it would be something they would consider doing often or if they would no longer want to try it out again, talk about how using the toy made them feel and if they would like to try other ones, remember the first experience should not be a determinant of how it would always be. Your sex toy journey with your partner should be collaborative and something you both would ride out together with excitement rather than something they are pressured into doing.

Conclusion.

 It is fun and exciting to try out something new with your best friend to help grow intimacy with them. But there are also scenarios where your partner is not comfortable with it or it does not appeal to them, there could be a lot of reasons why they would not be comfortable using a sex toy, it could stem from fear, past experiences, trauma or it is just not something they would ever consider doing. If your partner is not willing to experiment this, you should consider how much this means to you and if you are able to work around your relationship without it or if it will be open for discussion later in the relationship. Try putting yourself in their shoes and refrain from being disappointed in them for not sharing in your adventure just yet. A healthy amount of good timing, empathy and togetherness could lead to your partner being on board with the idea of using sex toys and spicing up your relationship.

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Lingerie Plus Confidence

Confidence is Sexy, and being sexy is a feeling, Lingerie is an essence of femininity, that comes with charm and seduction.It helps ladies get in touch with their most intimate parts and being aware of herself. A lingerie may be a simple piece of clothing, but it represents so much more, intimacy and self-love. They are loads of lingerie sets to explore with, different colours and more. Lingerie can be empowering and helps to transform the way you perceive yourself.

Here are four ways lingerie can make you feel confident.

Lingerie improves your appearance and makes you feel sexy

Lingerie can help your clothes fit better, which is an undervalued feature. It makes clothing look and fit you better. Getting the right kind of  panties can help rid the stress of having to fret about your under wear lines and brings out your shape better, do not forget the slimmer appearance. Lingerie also helps make you feel attractive and indulging in your evil side, boosting your confidence in your sexual appeal, making you feel hotter. Improving your self-confidence in your own way, is the best way to boost confidence that extends to the other parts of your life. 

Lingerie can help highlighting

Lingerie helps to show off the parts of your body that you love, while showing off the parts you feel insecure about in a different light, this makes you look at certain insecurities consciously and leading to self-acceptance. Although lingerie can be revealing, it is a good way to highlight the good parts of your body, giving you that glow and extra boost of confidence you need.

Lingerie is for everyone

The common misconception that lingerie is for promiscuous, skinny or petite women, is false. Lingerie is for everyone, irrespective of size, shape and age, there is no hindrance to feeling sexy and confident in your skin. Depending on your taste, color, and unique interest, there is a design for you to pick from. Designers take in to consideration, the different yet beautifully sculpted body types and produce something for everyone to feel sexy and confident in.

Lingerie is comfortable

Lingerie becomes comfortable as it becomes a normal clothing for you. Depending on your mood and the type you choose from, you would feel comfortable with your appearance than you normally are, whether you are alone or with your significant other. Lingerie makes you self-assured of your natural beauty and self-worth. Wearing a nice set of lingerie under your clothings, makes you feel more relaxed, happier and confident, because you do not need to bother yourself with self-conscious thoughts running through your mind.

Conclusion

Lingerie gives an outlet to expressing ones personality and truly being yourself, even if no one recognizes it, and that is the true definition of confidence. When you feel good from the inside, it does not matter what is worn on the surface, you know what you have underneath, and that is a good enough reason to smile through the day, while getting your work done.

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Types of sex toys

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Sex toys are a great way to spicing things up in the bedroom, it’s easier and dare we say even better. Whether you are with your significant other, trying out sex for the first time or you know just want to get it on alone, it does not have to be a blur but can be a mind blowing orgasmic moment. There is always a special sex toy for everyone to pick from, depending on your level of freaky.

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Penis Pumps: The Complete Guide

If you’re unable to maintain that erection, you are not alone, between 5 and 15% of men that are within the ages of 40 and 70 have the same problem. There might just be something you need, to get things in the right order, luckily for you, we have got just what you need. A Penis Pump is a treatment option for men that have an erectile dysfunction, that are unable to maintain an erection sufficient enough for a pleasurable sexual experience, it is also called a vacuum pump or a vacuum erection device.

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Your Guide to Picking The Best Fleshlight

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The range of Fleshlights is vast. Launched in 1998, they have gone on to define what a masturbator can be. And in the process, have taken the world by storm. But which one should you buy. Or should you start a collection? Let us show you the way and get you the right maturbator.

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Prostate Massage For The Masses

We think having your prostate massaged is one of the greatest feelings out there. But many people have never tried it. If you are worried about the taboo of it, all we can say is relax, self love and unusual pleasure activities are great, and every one is free to find what they like! Some people are worries about anal play in general, we say give it a go! Some people are curious, but don’t know where to start. Let us hold your hand.

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Get Started With Your First Butt Plug

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When you add a butt plug to your play, you will add a new dimension to your experience. Butt plugs affect the muscles down in your pelvic floor, and can enhance orgasm by giving the muscles something to grip onto during climax. For many people, anal play can be daunting, but we are here to guide you as you explore the amazing sensations you can have.

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