We think having your prostate massaged is one of the greatest feelings out there. But many people have never tried it. If you are worried about the taboo of it, all we can say is relax, self love and unusual pleasure activities are great, and every one is free to find what they like! Some people are worries about anal play in general, we say give it a go! Some people are curious, but don’t know where to start. Let us hold your hand.
The prostate is a gland located in the male pelvis. It is responsible for making semen, which is the fluid that contains the sperm at ejaculation time. The prostate is nestled right up next to the bladder, which is why it can cause urinary problems when there is an issue.
The area around the prostate, and the anus in general is packed full of nerve endings, which is why playing there can feel so good. By massaging the prostate, you increase the blood flow to that area, which enlarges things, and make things feel even greater.
Getting Started With Prostate Massage
Step one is to relax. You can reach the prostate through the anus, and a relaxed anus is a comfortable anus. Next up, grab your lube. The anus is not self lubricating, and there is no such thing as too much lube. Next, if you want to, put on a glove, this will make clean up later a little easier.
Finding The Prostate
Slip one or two fingers into the anus, and feel for a walnut sized gland towards the perineum. This is the area between the balls and the anus. Feel around, and you should find it. This is where communication is key, as your partner should feel it when you find the prostate.
Performing Prostate Massage
Once you have found the prostate, now the massage can begin, try rubbing it in circular motions, switching from clockwise to anti-clockwise. Try varying the pressure you use to massage the prostate so as to change the sensation that is felt. remember to go slow, you can always go for longer, and try again another day, but you do not want to cause any pain.
Prostate Massaging Toys are also an option, especially if one is alone. Any anal play toy will work, but we stock a range of prostate massagers that will help you get the job done. Make sure you clean your toys after use, and only use toys designed for anal play.
Good To Know
Whilst you are receiving a prostate massage, you may feel the need to urinate, this is normal. It is caused by the fact that the prostate is at the base of the bladder. You should have a pee before you start play to avoid any accidents.
Some people can achieve orgasm by prostate stimulation alone. But many folks report to needed to have their penis stimulated as well to get there. Don’t worry about what feels good, but have a play and see what works for you.
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