Gags can be amazing at changing the dynamic when you play. They can remove the ability to speak, change the way you think, and look amazing, all at the same time.
If you have never used them before, it is worth thinking about the practicalities. A gag is a device to prevent the user from having control of their mouth, be it to stop them from using it, or prevent them from closing it. If you’ve never used one before, it is worth starting small. A massive bright red ball gag may look awesome, but to the uninitiated, it will quickly lead to a sore jaw, and bad time.
Starting with a basic ball gag, with soft straps is the way to go. Quick to put on, and feeling awesome you’ll wonder why you never tried them before.
Departing from the ball gag, the bit gag is another classic design that is great for those exploring. As simple or decadent as you desire, they are great if you wish to engage in a little equestrian play.
But what about if you do not want to keep the mouth closed, but rather, keep it open? The ring gag is a good start, which is available in a variety of sizes and materials. If you are feeling more adventurous, the Jennings gag, also known as a dental gag in some circles, gives you all access whilst also providing the manic doctor aesthetic.
If humiliation is more your idea of fun, how about a more unusual device, such as our stopper gag which provides access and denial whenever desired. Or how about a tube style gag, that means the wearer takes everything in the mouth. Or even the smile hooks, that forces a smile on the wearers face, whether they like it or not.
The classic penis gag is known to be particularly humiliating for the wearer, as it not only mutes their speech but also adds an element of degradation. This gag is designed to be inserted into the wearer’s mouth, simulating oral penetration, and often includes a strap or harness to secure it in place.
For those seeking to elevate the experience, consider upgrading to a penis gag with an external dildo attachment. This innovative addition takes the original concept a step further, offering even more tantalising possibilities for play. The external dildo protrudes from the front of the gag, creating a striking visual and providing an extra layer of domination and submission. This design allows the dominant partner to utilise the submissive wearer as a human sex toy, which can be both erotic and humiliating, depending on the dynamics of the relationship.
Incorporating this type of gag into your BDSM repertoire can lead to a wide variety of scenarios and role-playing opportunities. It can be used in conjunction with other restraints or toys, such as blindfolds, cuffs, or collars, to create a complete sensory experience. For some, the act of being “used” by their partner in this manner can lead to a deeper sense of trust and intimacy, while for others, it may simply be a thrilling way to explore new fantasies.
When experimenting with penis gags, whether of the classic variety or with an external dildo, it is crucial to prioritise safety, communication, and consent. Discuss boundaries and preferences with your partner beforehand, and establish a safe word or signal to ensure that both parties feel comfortable throughout the experience. It is also important to clean and sanitise the gag after each use to maintain proper hygiene.
And finally, once you have explored all those options, and really want to go hardcore, there is the inflatable gag. Not for the faint of heart, or jaw. These little monsters are able to completely fill the mouth, and provide the wearer with the feeling of uncontrollable fullness that can bring a tear to the eyes.
As with all toys, you should use a little caution. When you are putting things in your mouth, you can prevent swallowing, which will make the wearer drool. Be ready for this, you don’t want to get drool on your best bed sheets (Or do you? We are not your keeper after all!), and it should go without saying to consenting adults that putting things in your mouth can present a choking hazard. Only use high quality toys designed for the job, and don’t improvise.
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