How To: Choose A Strap-on & Get Started With Pegging

Using a strap-on is awesome for everyone involved. The sense of connection you can achieve when you play with the normal order of things is stunning. Full Trouble has everything you need to explore your kinky side with a wide range of dildos and harnesses.

Getting Started

Let us dive straight in, so to speak! It is best to start small with your first strap-on, as we can always go bigger later. If you are a beginner to any kind of anal play, then size will matter. There are muscles back there, and like all muscles, if you have not used them for a long time, they will be tight and unyielding. The number one thing to remember, is to relax. You can get relaxation lubes to help (See our guide to choosing lube). The second thing to remember is to go slow. This is not a sprint. The third thing is lube. There is no such thing as too much lube!

Packer Gear Boxer Strap-on Harness Black Xtra Small to Small

Selecting Your First Strap-on

SportSheets Red Lace With Satin Corsette Strap On

To begin, lets look at what makes a great strap-on. In our opinion, it’s all about connection. For the wearer, this means comfort and confidence, you do not want your harness to be slipping midway through your play.

As we all have different snapped bodies, our harnesses have a range of adjustments to help you find the perfect fit, one of our favirites is the Lux Fetish Pretty In Pink Strap-On Harness, which has a simple yet versatile design that allows if to fit almost every one. If you want to go up to a more luxurious model, then the SportSheets Red Lace With Satin Corsette Strap-On may be the way to go, we especially love the extra support that it gives to the back. Make sure you are able to adjust where the dildo sits on your body, and fit your comfort zone. Some people like to wear the harness higher than others.

The next thing to considers is the dildo size. Diameter is what it is all about here. Smaller will be easier to start with. If you have chosen a harness with a retaining ring for the dildo such as the Navigator U Strap On GSpot Dildo and Harness, you will be able to use any dildo with a flanged base, and many that include balls. To begin, a smaller size as provided with the Fetish Fantasy Series First Timers Strap On Dildo Set is a great start. Larger sizes like the VacULock Ultra Realistic Harness 8 Inch will quickly seem like a great idea. We always recommend exploring other anal play ideas such as Mood Naughty 1 Butt Plug Trainer Set to really hit the spot and get those backside muscles working.

More Advanced Choices

So what about if you are not a beginner? You can step up your pegging game by getting a separate hardness and dildo. The huge benefit of this is that you can mix and match as the mood takes you. Plus you can also use the dildo on its own for some extra play time.

What about if you do not want a harness at all? Full Trouble have a range of strapless strap-ons to tickle your fancy. Choices like the Revolver Strapless Strap On G Spot Dildo and Regal Rider Vibrating Silicone Strapless Strap On Triple G Dildo.

Many people find that the lack of straps can make them feel even more intimate and connected, and the possibility of clitoral stimulation can heighten the pleasure for the giver.

Revolver Strapless Strap On G Spot Dildo

And finally, why not mix it up, add some electro play into the mix, with a ElectraStim Fusion Komodo Dildo

Before you begin

As with anything to do with your rear entrance, you may want to take steps to eliminate mess. This is, after all, where you keep your poops! Make sure you are washed, inside and out. You may find an anal douche helpful here. For most people, their diet affects how messy they can get. Whilst we are not dieticians, we can say, more fibre! Most people do not eat enough fibre and have too much fat in their diet. Increasing your fibre intake will help your body with slowing down digestion, and improving the state of your stools, which makes cleaning much easier.

Getting Started

So, now you have a butt, and you have a harness, and you have a dildo. Now it is time to enter. First up, don’t forget to lube. The anus is not self lubricating, so you need to make sure you are lubed up. Add as much lube as you need, you do not want to be dry for this! The next thing to remember is to relax, and go slow. You want to feel your way in. As you enter, you will feel resistance from the anal sphincter, this is the muscle that keeps your butt closed when you want it closed. It can take some practice to be able to open the sphincter enough to take a large sized toy, so use a small toy when starting out and be gentle. Many people find the sensation of the sphincter opening to be pleasurable, so enjoy it!

As you go deeper, you enter rectum. This is on average about 12cm long (Although, as always, all folks are different) and is where you’ll spend most of your time. Enjoy the sensation of being full, and communicate to your partner how it feels, every one feels different, and many toys will have a different sensation.

Getting Into It

Now you are in, things become a lot simpler. You are not joined, and both of you can enjoy the pleasure of your intimate time. As you relax and get used to being full, you will find that motion becomes easier, work your hips and experiment with movement to see what you like. Gentle swaying, and maybe hardcore thrusting are all possible now if you want. Once again, take your time. enjoy the moment, there is no need to rush, and you can always have another go in the future, you do not need to do it all now!

Finishing Up

When you are ready, simply pull out. Remember, no matter how much preparation you have done, some mess is to be expected (Fact of life – play with poop hole, you’ll find poops). Don’t worry, this is normal, and is easy to deal with. Have some wet wipes ready as you’ll have some lube to wipe up. When you are done, bask in the happy glow you now feel, and don’t forget to clean your toys!

How to get started with pegging

  1. Selecting Your First Strap-on

    To begin, lets look at what makes a great strap-on. In our opinion, it’s all about connection. For the wearer, this means comfort and confidence, you do not want your harness to be slipping midway through your play.

    As we all have different snapped bodies, our harnesses have a range of adjustments to help you find the perfect fit, one of our favirites is the Lux Fetish Pretty In Pink Strap-On Harness, which has a simple yet versatile design that allows if to fit almost every one. If you want to go up to a more luxurious model, then the SportSheets Red Lace With Satin Corsette Strap-On may be the way to go, we especially love the extra support that it gives to the back. Make sure you are able to adjust where the dildo sits on your body, and fit your comfort zone. Some people like to wear the harness higher than others.

  2. Preperations

    As with anything to do with your rear entrance, you may want to take steps to eliminate mess. This is, after all, where you keep your poops! Make sure you are washed, inside and out. You may find an anal douche helpful here. For most people, their diet affects how messy they can get. Whilst we are not dieticians, we can say, more fibre! Most people do not eat enough fibre and have too much fat in their diet. Increasing your fibre intake will help your body with slowing down digestion, and improving the state of your stools, which makes cleaning much easier.

  3. Easing in

    So, now you have a butt, and you have a harness, and you have a dildo. Now it is time to enter. First up, don’t forget to lube. The anus is not self lubricating, so you need to make sure you are lubed up. Add as much lube as you need, you do not want to be dry for this! The next thing to remember is to relax, and go slow. You want to feel your way in. As you enter, you will feel resistance from the anal sphincter, this is the muscle that keeps your butt closed when you want it closed. It can take some practice to be able to open the sphincter enough to take a large sized toy, so use a small toy when starting out and be gentle. Many people find the sensation of the sphincter opening to be pleasurable, so enjoy it!

    As you go deeper, you enter rectum. This is on average about 12cm long (Although, as always, all folks are different) and is where you’ll spend most of your time. Enjoy the sensation of being full, and communicate to your partner how it feels, every one feels different, and many toys will have a different sensation.

  4. Having Fun

    Now you are in, things become a lot simpler. You are not joined, and both of you can enjoy the pleasure of your intimate time. As you relax and get used to being full, you will find that motion becomes easier, work your hips and experiment with movement to see what you like. Gentle swaying, and maybe hardcore thrusting are all possible now if you want. Once again, take your time. enjoy the moment, there is no need to rush, and you can always have another go in the future, you do not need to do it all now!

  5. Cleaning Up

    When you are ready, simply pull out. Remember, no matter how much preparation you have done, some mess is to be expected (Fact of life – play with poop hole, you’ll find poops). Don’t worry, this is normal, and is easy to deal with. Have some wet wipes ready as you’ll have some lube to wipe up. When you are done, bask in the happy glow you now feel, and don’t forget to clean your toys!

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